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How and Why

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“And David realized that the Lord had established him as king over Israel, and that his kingdom was highly exalted, for the sake of His people Israel.”
-1 Chronicles 14:2

It’s a good day when you’re appointed king.  At least, I assume so—I haven’t been appointed king over anything, unless I appointed myself (I take after King Julien).  And while most of us haven’t been appointed king, we probably have been appointed to something.  You may have been appointed an employee.  You may have been appointed a raise.  You may have been appointed a good grade.  You may have been appointed a leader.  You may have been appointed a friend.

Whatever it is, we’ve all been appointed to some sort of position, regardless of how it’s esteemed.  So, this passage has two huge reminders for us in regards to our position, our status, our situation, our job, our leadership, our friendship, and every other opportunity we can be appointed to:

  1. The Lord establishes us.  David knew he wasn’t king because of what he’d done.  Sure, he had a great track record, and the people were in love with him, but he knew that ultimately, it was God who put him in the position he was in.  I have to remember that too, because when I don’t, I start taking credit for the successes.  The obvious problem with that is that I become prideful and selfish, and end up inhibiting my influence and prohibiting my progress.  That’s a serious enough problem on its own!  But the less obvious issue with forgetting that God establishes me, wherever I’m at and whatever I’m doing, is that I also start taking credit for the failures.  If I establish myself, I’m bound to become prideful, but I am also bound to become depressed: my identity and attitude become wrapped up in the performance of my establishment, rather than the power of God’s grace.  Jesus took our failures when he died on the cross, and gave us his victories when he rose from the grave!  As long as I let HIM establish me, and give HIM the credit, I can trust that no matter what happens—success or failure—it’s in HIS hands, and not mine.  David fought lots of battles, but he knew that he was only responsible for how they started—either by God’s establishment, or his own—-not how they ended. When the Lord establishes you, you get to live worry-free!
  2.  It’s for the sake of His people.  David’s kingdom was exalted, but not because he was a great king who earned some recognition.  He worked hard, fought well, and received tribute from tons of different nations.  But the scripture says he was exalted “for the sake of [God's] people Israel.”  I can be a big nobody, or a big somebody, but whatever position I’m in, it’s for the sake of God’s people.  He has a plan and a purpose for my life, and to understand it clearly and steward it faithfully, I need to remember that it’s not for me or because of me that I am who/what/where I am…it’s for, and because of, God.  Without this truth driving our circle of influence, everything we do becomes self-serving.  We have a natural tendency to make everything about US!  God knows this—that’s why there’s so much in the Bible about the reward we’re promised in heaven after living a faithful life to the end!  But we have a choice: to stake our claim in what’s “here and now,” or what’s there and then.  The “there and then” is promised to be a lot better. We just have to make sure that we remember that what’s “here and now”—our current position—is for the sake of HIS people.  As long as we live with that in mind, we’ll serve more willingly, give more generously, lead more confidently, live less anxiously, love less conditionally…and reap the reward at the end!
Let the Lord establish you, so that you can trust him for the power and the outcome.  And let him establish you for the sake of his people, so that you can live purposefully and store up treasures in heaven as you go wherever he leads.

Separatists

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“Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kinds of sufferings.”
-1 Peter 5:9

One of the enemy’s strongest tools is separation, or loneliness.  He deceives people into thinking that their sin has cut them off from God, the church, and even their closest friends.  He tries to tell them that there is no one to help…no one who CAN help.  And these lies often motivate people to separate themselves…while they were NOT alone when the devil told them that they were, they make themselves alone because they believe the lie.

Satan must be fought with love, unity, and community. And it is vital that we understand that community is not just being around people.  Community is the communication of unity.  And when we lose communication with God that we are His people and He is our God, or with our friends that we are with them and they with us, we provide the enemy with a way into our hearts.  Remember that we are not alone; we have not been and cannot be cut off because of the grace of God by the blood of Jesus; that others are fighting and winning the same battles we are because they serve the same God we do; and that God knows, understands, and provides!

Jesus prayed to the Father in John 17:22-23, “I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one: I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”  Not only does community defeat the purposes of the enemy, but it lets the world know that Jesus is King, and His grace and peace trump every hand the world could ever play.  So challenge yourself over the next few days to communicate unity to those around you…and present the gospel in word AND power!

Sent Out (Part 2)

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“Calling the twelve to Him, He sent them out two by two and gave them authority over evil spirits.  These were His instructions: ‘Take nothing for the journey except a staff—no bread, no bag, no money in your belts.’”
-Mark 6:7-8

When Jesus sent His disciples out to do ministry on their own for the first time, he sent them with a lot of guidance that we should probably learn from, too.  A couple things from these verses that we need to be mindful of if we want to be as effective as the disciples were:

  1. You can’t do it alone.  Jesus had twelve disciples, but He paired them off…sometimes it may seem to us that God’s way of doing things will take more time, or will be more complicated, or just simply won’t be as effective as what we have in mind.  The disciples could have seemingly covered a lot more ground and done a lot more ministry if they had gone individually, but Jesus cut their numbers in half so that they wouldn’t be alone.  One of the biggest lies we can buy into is that the more spread out we are, the more we are able to accomplish.  Jesus knew otherwise.  He knew that the disciples would need each other; they would need encouragement, and they would need accountability, and they would need each other to fully invoke the presence of God.  Pride simultaneously convinces us that we are capable, and makes us entirely incapable.  God is King.  And sometimes we need to stop trying to be, and allow others to come alongside us so that we can accomplish things that are bigger than ourselves!
  2. You have to trust God to provide. God is waiting to fill us with His dreams and place His provision in our hands, but in order to receive we must first make room.  You will not have room for God’s kingdom in your life if your kingdom never gets smaller.  As Bill Johnson has said, “the further you go with God, the less you can take with you.”  Jesus didn’t want His disciples to take anything with them, NOT because He wanted them to have little, but because He wanted them to put all their trust in the Father so that He could provide for their needs.  Our dependence and trust in God is directly tied to our impact on the world, and if we do not need God for anything, we won’t know God for anything either.  But as soon as we make room in our hearts and put ourselves in positions of dependence, the Holy Spirit fills our hearts with holiness and our Father reaches from heaven to prove His faithfulness to those who love Him!

Sent Out (Part 1)

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In Mark 6, Jesus sends His disciples out to do ministry on their own.  It’s the first time they’ve been released from His side to bring the love of God into the world.  This is what Christ calls each and every one of His disciples—including you, and me—to do.  But Jesus is very specific with His disciples about how to do things…and it’s not because He wants to make things difficult, or just wants to make rules because He’s God and people HAVE to follow them.  It’s because He was equipping His disciples to make the biggest impact possible!  And if we want to make the biggest impact possible in our world…our time…our generation…we should take a few moments to learn from His advice!

Before Jesus even sends the disciples out, there are two things we should be mindful of:

  1. The disciples had spent a LOT of time with Jesus first. They had seen many miracles, heard many parables, and learned from  many teachings.  They had basically lived with the guy who preached the sermon on the mount, and who was constantly saying to them things like “Why are you so afraid?  Do you still have no faith?”  He was constantly challenging them and encouraging them.  This is SO important, and rightly the first thing to mention, because you cannot go in the name of Jesus if you do not have the heart of Jesus.  Demons and sicknesses were subject to the name of Jesus…but it was because the disciples were too!  Until we have truly founded our lives on the truths of the gospel and have matured beyond spiritual infancy (He 5:12-14), we won’t be sent out like the twelve were.
  2. The disciples were commissioned to initiate, not just appreciate. When Jesus sent His disciples out, a shift of perspective happened.  They weren’t part of the crowd anymore.  They weren’t the observers.  They became the teachers, and the prophets, and the healers, and the servants, to everyone else.  They became the DOERS instead of the WATCHERS.  And if we are going to bring the kingdom of God into the world we have to commit ourselves to the cause.  You cannot wait for someone else to lead the way…you have to be willing to blaze trails yourself (after all, we were not given spirits of timidity…2Ti 1:7).  When Jesus told Peter that the gates of hell would not prevail against His church, He meant that the church was going to invade—not the other way around!  We’ve got to trust in the Lord and unashamedly parade the gospel of Jesus Christ into the darkest corners of the world.

More on the way…

Growing Up

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The Bible talks a lot about growing.  The church grew, the gospel grew, believers’ faith grew, and God made (and still makes!) things grow.  Even science tells us that healthy things grow.  One of the best questions you can ask yourself is, “Am I GROWING in the things that are most important to me?“

We have become arrogant the moment we stop seeking growth.  By ignoring growth and progress, we are essentially saying that we have reached the pinnacle and have no need for anything more (which was the claim of the church of Laodicea in Revelation 3, which God wanted to spit out of His mouth because of how “wretched, pitiful, poor, blind, and naked” they were).  If you are not progressing you are most likely regressing…there is no middle ground.

But we must also be on guard from putting too much emphasis on progress and not enough emphasis on purpose.  We have to know WHY we are growing before we can best answer HOW to grow in the greatest way.  And if we fail to remember the purpose of what we’re doing, no amount of progress will ever be satisfactory…because we are so focused on the mileage gauge that we miss the fuel gauge, and the pit crew waiting to fix things up, and we may even miss the finish line.  If you never ask yourself why you’re doing something, you’ll end up doing a lot of things for no reason at all.

We cannot allow our progress to overshadow our purpose.  Progress may be the gas pedal, but purpose is the gas, and if we never return to the “why” of something, the “how” becomes empty and irrelevant.

Six Questions for the Ministerial-Minded

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I recently asked the small group leaders at 24-7 to ask six questions during their planning, and I thought I would share them with the internet world and expand on them a little bit… (almost all of them can be applied in some way to any area of ministry, so this may be applicable to everyone who is not a small group leader too!)

  1. Does it bring God glory and make much of Him? If what we are doing isn’t first and foremost bringing glory to God, then it is inevitably bringing glory to something else, and is no longer leading people TO His throne, but leading them AWAY from it.  It is really easy to include God without making it about God.  Instead of looking first at our lives and then searching for how God relates to them, we ought to look at God first, and then see how our lives relate to Him.  This keeps us focused on the fact that man was made in God’s image, and not the other way around!  Too often people live lives that include God but do not require Him…the first step in changing that is to model it in our own lives, and then to make it a foundational part of our ministry!
  2. Does it help people know God in a deeper and more relevant way? If we are not helping to lead people into a deeper relationship with God, we’re probably not leading them anywhere helpful at all.  A leader’s purpose is not to do things for others, but to help others get to a place in which they can do things for themselves.  If you aren’t continually encouraging and challenging people, you are actually building up glory for yourself by keeping them reliant on you to give them what they need.  Instead, we’ve got to lead in such a way that eventually makes us unnecessary because those we’ve been leading have become self-sustaining.
  3. Does it challenge people to live in greater integrity? We’ve got to make it a point to have people seek God’s approval, rather than man’s.  Many churches have made it far too easy to look Godly without being Godly, and that may be because they’ve forgotten that people aren’t held accountable to the church—they’re held accountable to God, who sees their hearts and knows their motives.  The world can’t be changed by liars…which is what we’re letting people be when we let them come to church and get involved in ministry without challenging them to be filled with the Spirit and live as they are called.
  4. Does it inspire people to make a heavenly impact on the world? The church isn’t a social club, it’s an army!  God gave us victory over every power and principality of the world, and yet many Christians keep that victory inside the walls of a building instead of storming the gates of hell and bringing the good news to the world in both word AND power.  Christianity can’t be allowed to settle as self-help…that’s an insult to the power of God that raised Christ from the dead (which is in you, by the way!).  Tekmito Adegemo said, “We cannot preach good news and be bad news,” and it’s bad news if the people who claim to love and serve a God of life, peace, hope, joy, and justice don’t do anything to bring those things into the world in a HUGE WAY!  Jesus said that we would make a greater impact on the world than even He did…so we’ve got to lead people into that promise and do everything we can to raise up people who are relentlessly in love with Christ and obsessed with a hope for the world.
  5. Does it create opportunity for vulnerability? It was the broken, the hungry, the sick, and the rejected that Jesus went to.  And I think there’s a whole lot more people who are broken, hungry, sick, and rejected than we perceive.  But it’s sometimes hard to admit that.  There are walls that are often built really high, and really thick, in people’s hearts…and those walls keep them from moving forward.  Leaders need to create an atmosphere of forgiveness if they want others to really start growing and dealing with their issues.  Grace has got to be our greatest asset.  And we need to not only notify people of grace, but give them opportunities to experience it for themselves by encouraging honesty and openness.
  6. Is it encouraging to people? JESUS IS GOOD NEWS! There is no reason anyone should be able to be around Christians and not be encouraged.  It makes sense that if we want people to grow, we ought to always be building them up!  A leader’s encouragement can act as fuel for a person’s progress.  There is always something in a person that is worth our encouragement…if there wasn’t Jesus wouldn’t have died for them!  We have to draw the purpose out of people and help them to discover and step into their gifts and talents.  And we’ve got to do everything we can to lighten their spirits, energize their minds, and inspire their hearts every time we get a chance!

Making a Statement

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Pray that these would be true in your life and in mine every day, and strive for them with everything you have.  It is worth the risk.

ONE Lesson #4: Raising the Bar

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With God behind us, we can do anything (Php 4:13).  But when our knowledge goes too far beyond our practice, our belief becomes a burden because we’re not giving God space to fulfill the promises of scripture in our lives.  It’s easy to acknowledge what God says to us and still live lives that never go beyond what we can do.  As Christians, we’ve got to keep each other accountable, and not just with struggles or responsibilities, but with our faith at its core as well.  If we want to step into God’s dreams for our lives, we have to challenge each other to live in ways that require both God’s sustenance and each other’s support (both are necessary…Lk 10:27).

While explaining how individual’s personal walks with God play a part in their unity as a team, the youth staff at NewSpring Church said that they hold people to a standard they can’t live up to without Jesus and each other.  Leaders especially need to have unity between each other that is so solid that every person’s quiet time is vital to the operation of the ministry.  Holding each other accountable in this way not only makes sure that what you’re doing is always based in, surrounded by, and covered with scripture…it also ensures that your personal time with God becomes not only for yourself, but for your teammates too!

ONE Lesson #3: Purposeful

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I accidentally deleted this post from before, so I had to completely rewrite it…I have to confess an unreasonable amount of frustration after I realized what I’d done…hopefully I haven’t forgotten anything really significant!

The best thing a leader can do is NOT to be in front of people, dragging them behind.  The best thing a leader can do IS to be behind people, pushing them to go places on their own.  The primary purpose of leaders in ministry should be to encourage others into their gifts, to help others realize their callings, and to provide others with the means to accomplish what God has laid before them.  Brad Cooper said “People are saved from hell, but they are saved for a purpose.  If they did not have purpose in the kingdom, God would take them straight to heaven right when they became saved.”

Leaders—draw out the purpose in people.

Here are just a few ways we can do this (NOTE – this is by no means an exhaustive list):

1) Empower them. Too many leaders keep all the responsibility to themselves and don’t trust the people they’re leading.  If you don’t put trust in the people following you, they won’t be able to put trust in you either.  Remember than when the disciples came to Jesus about the five thousand hungry men, He told the disciples to feed them before He fed them Himself (Mt 14:15-16)!  Show them that they have purpose that is of equal importance to your own purpose (as it is given by the same God), and have the faith in them that they need to have in God.

2) Help those you’re leading do what you’re doing better than you. YOU ARE NOT ETERNAL!  Your time may be now, but it won’t be always.  It is our responsibility to build up followers of Jesus who not only do what we do, but do what we do better than we do it.  God wants His church to grow, and if we never help people to achieve more than we do, we become the biggest obstacle for our ministry.  You must lead in a way that makes you unnecessary because of how prepared you’ve made everyone else.  Follow Jesus’ example when He told His disciples that they would do “greater things than these;” we should be able to say that to the people we’re leading!

3) Humble yourself. This is the most important thing a leader can do.  The less glory you take for yourself, the more glory goes to God…He is most glorified when you are most humbled.   You are not leading your ministry, God is leading His ministry and just so happened to choose you as His vessel.  When we forget that, we become poor stewards—broken vessels—that end up “sinking” the opportunity He has given us.  This doesn’t mean we can’t be confrontational and confident: Jesus was both, but still willing to humble Himself further than we can really grasp (Php 2:8).  What it DOES mean is that we’ve got to put others before ourselves, and make sure our leadership serves them, rather than demanding that they serve us.

How else can you draw out the purpose in people?

Necessities

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I cannot tell you how excited I am for tonight. It’s our first 24-7 service of the new school year, and the leadership team has been praying so much for God to show up in an incredible way…I believe that God is going to answer that prayer!  When our ministry (which is EVERY effort you make to share the gospel and show the love of Christ, not just church-related jobs or groups) is supported by prayer and passion, it becomes unstoppable.

If you are involved in ministry and you are not constantly praying for God to bless what you are doing, you need to do one of two things:
1) START praying about your ministry, because you cannot do anything of significance without the Holy Spirit backing you up; and when you pray for God to move where you are investing your time, it shows Him that you really do care about it and believe that He can do anything and everything to make it succeed;
2) STOP doing it, because if God is not involved in your ministry you are wasting your time.

We have to constantly be in a place of helplessness and total reliance on God to come in power and change people’s hearts…you received the grace of God from God, not from another person—that doesn’t change with your ministry!  You never received the ability to give that…people only receive God’s grace from God.

If you are not passionate about your ministry, you need to do one of two things (this might sound familiar):
1) START praying for God to change your heart about what He has called and anointed you to do, and begin putting every effort you can into serving and building up the people you serve with.  God doesn’t ever want us to do things begrudgingly, but sometimes we have to press on through a lack of motivation and passion as an act of faithfulness to what God has chosen us for.  IF you are truly doing what God has called you to do, obligation will shortly become obsession when it is backed by a sincere pursuit of God’s heart.
2) STOP doing it, because the world has enough people who dirty God’s reputation by doing ministry half-heartedly and showing through their actions that the kingdom of God is not worth pursuing excellence for.  God has chosen you for a purpose, and if you are not seeking and fulfilling that purpose because you have planted yourself somewhere else, you are not only missing out on a life of meaning and fulfillment that only comes from serving God as He calls you, but you are also keeping those you are currently serving from meeting with God in the way that He desires, because He has chosen someone else to do what you’re doing with the passion that you don’t have.

Every single one of us has a purpose in the kingdom of God, and to fulfill that purpose we need to continually seek God’s blessing and direction, and constantly be evaluating where we’re at and comparing it to where God wants us to be.  When we are where God wants us and passionate about being there, miracles happen!